关于我:I'm a middle-age trans woman, typically passing for someone in their 40s. I depend on wigs as my natural hair hasn't grown back out yet. I'm overweight but working on it. If that bothers you, you might want to move on. I had to take an early retirement due to health reasons, but try to remain as active as possible. I have a silly, often self-deprecating sense of humor, and am not afraid to clown around in familiar company. However, I can also exude the utmost in class in a formal setting. I try not to take myself too seriously, even tho I know I do. I just want to be a likeable person. I've moved on beyond my party and all-nighters years ago, but still like the idea of gathering with friends. I am very respectful, compassionate and empathetic. I like to consider myself emotionally intelligent, but that is for you to find out.
My friends call me "Chris" or "Christi". So can you! If you write me, start of your message with "Hi Christi Suraya" so I know you read at least this much of my profile.
我现在在寻找
了解的主要目的: 恋爱
了解的其他目的: 开放式关系, 朋友, 调情, 性爱
我现在在寻找:First off, let me say I'm not looking for anything serious...YET. However, if the sparks start to fly, I say let them light the fire and see how well it burns. I just want to feel happy, enjoying those moments where we laugh, hold each other, kiss, and talk forever. I want to be enraptured by simple pleasures and special moments. I want to carry on deep conversations about the news of the day, society, culture or metaphysics. But I also want to nerd out to fantasy and scifi, good music, and spicy topics. Lets dine together, shop together, road-trip together, glamp together. But let's also maintain our personal space for other friends and interests.
I should add that, while I identify as pansexual, my attractions change. Right now, my eye is drawn to women, both cis and trans, or nonbinary fems.
我的梦想:I would love to be a novelist. I have a graveyard on my PC where unfinished books go to die. LOL I want to live in a cozy mountain or seaside community. I want to travel the world.
我的人生目标:My big life goal is to continue my transition to be living as a woman full time. I still have fears I'm working on that keep me from making that move. I also want to complete a novel manuscript and see if I can get it published. I want to make that dream a reality. I have one novel in particular that is around 60% complete, but I have stepped away from it so many times that it might require some re-writing.
习惯和爱好：
爱好: 电影, 乐器, 计算机, 音乐, 艺术
其他爱好:Poetry, writing, cooking (I didn't include "culinary" b/c I can cook...but not THAT good. lol), sightseeing, festivals, farmers markets and craft shows.
喜欢的动物: 更喜欢猫
感兴趣的领域: 天文, 哲学, 地理, 历史, 宗教
空儿，我主要:Self improvement, global affairs, metaphysics, paranormal, and everyone's favorite...cleaning house.
喜欢的书籍:"Angels & Demons" by Dan Brown, "Dreamcatcher" by Stephen King, "Storyteller" by Dave Grohl
喜欢的电影:"Serenity", "The Polar Express", "Avengers:Endgame", The LOTR Trilogy, "New Moon", "It Was Always You", "National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation"
喜欢的电视剧:"Supernatural", "The Walking Dead", "Friends" (R.I.P. Matthew Perry), Expedition Unknown (Josh Gates: the REAL most interesting man in the world!), "How I Met Your Mother". As you can see, I'm not really impressed by any new shows currently on TV. haha
